Things that are not okay to say to a trans* person
: "I know you don't really go by it, but I'm going to still call you [birth name] because that's what I'm used to. Sorry"
: "don't be mad, but I don't think I'll ever be able to view you as a [gender] to be honest. Sorry'
: "I just don't feel comfortable using that name/those pronouns with you...you know?"
: "don't worry, I told them you were transgender"